How to Cope When Your Child Has Been Diagnosed with Autism
It’s common that you as a parent have a lot of questions and emotions when you first learn that your child has been diagnosed with autism. These include dealing with the diagnosis, choosing the best treatment options, and building a strong and supportive family structure. Managing the stress is fundamental to a family’s long-term health and wellbeing. Here are some steps to take when your child has been diagnosed with autism.
Give Yourself Time
Give yourself time to absorb the life-changing information. You will need to adjust your hopes, wishes, and dreams for your child and your family. Talking to other families, sharing information, identifying all available resources, and developing both a formal and informal support network are all helpful in managing stress.
Support groups are beneficial because they decrease your sense of isolation and increase your ability to cope. Groups offer opportunities to share stories about finding effective interventions, managing difficult situations, and moving forward with your life.
Once an autism diagnosis is confirmed, it is helpful to learn as much as you can about ASD. Obtaining research information about ASD and interventions from the Internet, conferences, and reading materials helps you manage anxiety about the diagnosis and make good choices. Be sure to share information with family and friends so people close to you can learn what you are learning and provide support and feedback.
Parenting is often a challenge, and when your child has a diagnosis of ASD those challenges may feel even greater at times. With the right support and resources, we firmly believe that all children can go on to lead enriched, fulfilling and successful lives, regardless of a diagnosis or not.
Talk with Professionals
There are many different sources of support for parents with children who have been diagnosed with autism. These range from parenting support groups, which provide invaluable knowledge and encouragement, to a more formalized therapy such as ABA (Applied Behavioral Analysis).
Suspecting that your child is not developing in an age-appropriate manner can be very frightening and stressful for parents and families. It is important to share your concerns with a physician, therapist, or advocate. Make sure your concerns are heard and your questions answered. Getting your child the appropriate resources is critical.
Get Financial Assistance
As a parent of a child who has been diagnosed with autism, it is a common situation to struggle financially. There are health services to pay for, as well as therapies that are necessary for your child with special needs to lead a fulfilling life. Many parents cannot work fulltime because they must take their children to regular doctor appointments and be present for their child in order for them to remain safely at home.
You may be eligible to receive benefits such as In-Home Supportive Services (IHSS). This funding can be used to meet your child’s daily needs and can help pay the expenses associated with autism. In-Home Supportive Services provides crucial benefits for families of children with developmental disabilities.
Find the Right School
For many, your child is diagnosed with autism in the pre-school period, which can raise questions around which schools to consider. This must be an individual choice made on your child’s learning needs, however, there is a case to be made for keeping your child in mainstream education for as long as possible.
School is a challenging time for all children, but for children with autism, it brings its own set of complications. School settings can be chaotic and noisy at times with many things out of the child’s control. Obtaining additional classroom support can make things easier as well as having a good, open dialogue with your child’s teachers. Often relatively small changes such as where your child sits in the class can make a huge difference.
If you are overwhelmed and you feel you need help, you can always reach out to us.
American Disability Association is dedicated to the wellbeing and protection of children with disabilities and actively provides support to enhance their quality of life. Whether you are dealing with federal or state benefits or struggling with a school district to get proper education for your child, we have the resources to help you. Many individuals and families managing a disability are not aware of the wide array of services available to them, or they do not know how to apply for these benefits in a way that is likely to succeed.
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